Add real UHPPOTE access driver via official uhppoted lib

Researched Node options for the UHPPOTE controller and chose the official
`uhppoted` npm package (MIT, actively maintained, single trivial dep). Its API
covers the full design: openDoor, getStatus, the event-log set (getEvent,
getEventIndex, setEventIndex, recordSpecialEvents), and setListener/listen.
Rejected alternatives: raw-dgram DIY, node-red-contrib-uhppoted, Go sidecar.

- packages/devices: add uhppoted@0.9.0; new `uhppote` access driver implementing
  AccessControlDevice (pulseOpen -> openDoor intent-only; healthCheck/getDoorStatus
  -> getStatus). Registered in the catalog alongside zkteco/esp32-relay.
- Local ambient types (uhppoted ships none); CJS interop via default-import +
  destructure under NodeNext.
- Config fields: controller serial (required), optional host/protocol (udp|tcp),
  doors, timeout.

Security/safety unchanged: unauthenticated UDP -> isolated VLAN assumed; relay
is intent-only ("a barrier is not a door").

wiki: record the library choice on uhppote-controller + log entry.

Verified: builds; `uhppote` shows in the catalog with correct fields;
instantiates and degrades to "offline" gracefully without hardware (on-VLAN
test pending).

packages/devices/package.json

@@ -18,7 +18,8 @@
     "lint": "tsc --noEmit"
   },
   "dependencies": {
-    "@parking/shared": "workspace:*"
+    "@parking/shared": "workspace:*",
+    "uhppoted": "0.9.0"
   },
   "devDependencies": {
     "typescript": "6.0.3"